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Mutual consent divorce in India, step by step

A mutual consent divorce is the only kind where nobody has to prove anything against anybody. You both agree the marriage is over, you agree what happens next, and the court records it. It is faster, cheaper and quieter than every alternative, and roughly everything that goes wrong with one goes wrong for the same reason: the settlement was not finished before the petition was filed.

This is the process in the order it happens.

What the law asks for

For Hindu marriages the provision is section 13B of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955. Parallel provisions do the same work under other personal laws and under the Special Marriage Act, 1954, where the marriage was registered under that Act.

Section 13B(1) requires three things, all of them at the same time:

  1. You have been living separately for a year or more.
  2. You have not been able to live together.
  3. You have mutually agreed that the marriage should be dissolved.

"Living separately" means living as two people rather than as a couple. Courts have accepted it inside one house where the circumstances support it, though it is harder to show and easier to be asked about.

Before anything is filed: the settlement

This is the part that decides how the rest goes, and it is the part people skip.

Everything between you must be settled and written down: maintenance — how much, in what form, paid when; custody of any children, along with access and who decides what; property — the flat, the loan against it, who pays it and what happens on sale; jewellery and accounts; any proceedings already running and which of them will be withdrawn.

Two rules make a settlement hold. Write figures, not intentions — "the parties have agreed on maintenance" is not a term, "₹X paid by NEFT on or before the 7th of each month until [date]" is. And settle every open thing, because a court reading a settlement with a gap in it will send you to mediation to fill it.

The first motion

The joint petition is filed at the family court with jurisdiction — where you married, where you last lived together, or where the respondent lives. The settlement is filed with it.

Both of you attend. The court satisfies itself that the petition is genuine, that nobody is under pressure, and that you understand what you are signing. Your statements are recorded. This hearing is usually short.

The wait

Section 13B(2) sets at least six months between the first motion and the second. The purpose is reconciliation: the law wants a gap in which a couple who might repair the marriage still can.

Whether that wait can be waived — and when — is the most asked question in this whole area. It has its own guide: what the six-month cooling-off period really means.

The second motion

Not before six months, and not after eighteen. That outer limit is real. Miss it and the petition lapses, and you file again from the beginning.

Both of you attend again. The court confirms that consent still stands — it must exist at the first motion and still at the second, which is why either party can withdraw at any point up to the decree. Statements are recorded a second time. If the court is satisfied, the decree of divorce follows.

How long the whole thing takes

Six months of statutory wait, plus how long your court takes to give you two dates. Across Indian family courts that generally lands somewhere between seven and eleven months, and the variable is the court, not the law. A busy metro complex can take six to eight weeks to list each motion; a quieter one, three.

Your city's page carries the realistic figure for the bench that will hear you.

What it costs

The cost is the advocate's fee, which across India commonly runs ₹25,000 to ₹50,000 for both motions, higher in the Tier-1 metros and lower elsewhere. What pushes a matter to the upper end is almost always an unfinished settlement or a party who cannot attend in person. See what a mutual consent divorce actually costs.

The mistakes that cost months

Every part of it, in detail

This page is the whole process in order. Each stage has its own page, written for the question people actually arrive with.

Before you file

The process

The practical questions

What to do next

If you know the settlement is agreed and you want the papers written properly, a guided session is fifty minutes with an advocate and your petition, affidavit and settlement drafted for your own court.

If you are earlier than that, read how maintenance is actually decided — it is the term couples most often think they have agreed when they have not.